Shopping for flower girl dresses is one of those heartwarming, no-pressure wedding tasks. And if there’s anyone who can make a grand entrance of her own (without causing a scandal), it’s the flower girl. Traditionally, the flower girl is the last one to walk down the aisle before the bride – in a floaty dress so adorable it turns heads in the sweetest way. She’s a scene stealer, melting hearts before the vows and eliciting a chorus of ‘awws’ whether she’s tossing petals or hiding behind her parent’s leg. 

But there are a few things to consider before she’s twirling and popping on the flower crown. Scroll on for our advice on choosing the best flower girl dresses. 

Fancy & fuss-free: What to look for in a flower girl dress 

  1. Comfort first: 

Choose soft fabrics, breathable fits, and easy movement for your flower girls. While some dresses might make her look like a dainty darling, if they’re itchy or stiff you could be in for some serious aisle-side outfit rebellion. Make sure to choose clothes made with modern and comfortable fabrics that won’t bother little ones to avoid any mid-ceremony wardrobe meltdowns. 

  1. Timeless or trendy?

In the same way your bridesmaid dresses harmonise with your venue and vibe, make sure to find the best flower girl dress to suit your wedding. 

While classic ceremonies might skew towards crisp white, modern celebrations can have a bit more fun with the colour palette. For the boho brides amongst you, lace is a great option to lean into the whimsy of your aesthetic whilst still being wearable. 

  1. The season matters 

Kids aren’t going to want to stay dressed from procession to party if they’re not comfortable. Opt for lightweight and shorter styles for summer and longer, luxe textures for the chillier seasons. It’s all about keeping your sweet girls comfy in whatever season. 

Style choices for her starring moment  

Traditionally, flower girls mirror the bride – but in this day and age, there are no hard-and-fast rules. As the couple of honour, it really comes down to personal preference, but here are some popular options: 

  1. Traditional white and ivory: 

Nod to tradition by dressing your girls in white and ivory. Even though this might seem a bit old-fashioned, there’s plenty of room to play with colour, texture and style. 

  1. Make a colourful splash 

For couples looking to ditch the traditions and embrace a little colour, the flower girl dress is the best way to make a statement. Dreamy pastels like soft pink, lavender, pale yellow, and mint green bring a fresh, whimsical energy that works wonderfully in a spring or summer wedding amongst bright blooms. Richer hues like burgundy, emerald, and navy add richness for autumn and winter “I dos”, while metallics add a bit of pizazz at any time of year. Or why not dress your flower girl in blue and let her be the sweetest take on ‘something blue’ yet?

  1. Matching vs. complementing the bridal party

If you’re set on a perfectly coordinated wedding party, having your flower girl match your bridesmaids is a dreamy way to bring everything together. Imagine your little bestie twirling in a sea of soft pink gowns in the same shade – it’s a picture-perfect scene. 

Opt for complementary dresses if you’re more into cohesion than an exact match, like an ivory tulle number with a big bow in your wedding hue or a floral print that nods to the bridesmaids’ dresses. Whether she’s twinning with the bridal party or standing out, one thing is for sure – she’ll be stealing hearts (and pirouetting all night on the dance floor). 

Budget & longevity: Smart ways to choose a dress

A flower girl dress doesn’t have to be a one-and-done outfit. Pick the right style, and she can keep twirling in it long after the big day. A timeless dress can easily make an appearance at birthday parties, family gatherings, or any occasion that calls for a little extra sparkle. Opt for a size with a little growing room – it’s much easier to tailor a dress down than to magically make it bigger later. And while you want something special, there’s no need to splurge on a piece she’ll inevitably outgrow. 

Complete the look: Accessories and adorable extras 

Take an already adorable look and turn it up with the sweetest little extras. Make every step pure magic with dainty tiaras, flower crowns, sparkly tights and all those classic petal baskets. Hair clips, bows, or even a tiny pearl bracelet add a thoughtful touch she’ll love (and maybe even keep as a special keepsake). And when it comes to shoes? Prioritise comfort – because a happy flower girl is a picture-perfect one.

The aisle moment 

Even the most confident little ones can get a case of the jitters before their big aisle moment. A flower girl dress that makes her feel like a princess can work wonders in boosting her confidence. If she's feeling a bit shy, a buddy system – walking alongside another flower girl, a ring bearer, or even a bridesmaid – can make all the difference.

When it comes to the walk itself, the classic petal toss is always dreamy. But there are a ton of playful alternatives like delicate ribbon wands, fluttering confetti, or even bubbles trailing behind her as she steps forward. No matter how she makes her entrance, a dress she loves and a smile to match is all she needs to steal hearts. 

A dress fit for a little scene stealer

From procession to party, the flower girl’s dress is the sweetest part of the celebration. There are plenty of pretty dresses to choose from for your lovely flower girl — with fun details like oversized bows, puff sleeves, and pretty 3D embellishments adding a little extra dazzle. 

Discover the best and most ethereal flower girl dresses at Little Lacey. Designed on the stunning Sunshine Coast, Australia, Little Lacey creates heirloom-worthy dresses that are as timeless as they are beautiful. Crafted with care, made to be cherished, and perfect for twirling long after the “I dos.”

A Little Lacey x 

FAQ: 

Do flower girls wear white?  

Traditionally yes, but couples who want to break from tradition might want their flower girl to wear a different colour. Pastels like pink, blue and lavender are becoming popular choices too. 

Who usually pays for flower girl dresses?

Traditionally, the bride and groom’s families covered the cost of the flower girl’s dress, but today, it’s more common for her parents to pay. To keep things budget-friendly, opt for a dress she can wear again and choose versatile accessories she’ll love beyond the big day.

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